How To Eliminate The Crazy…
How to eliminate the crazy BEFORE giving out your number when online dating …
1. Begin conversation
2. Continue conversation
3. Get busy with something mid conversation
4. See if they respond while you were busy.
5. If multiple messages are left and they are like hey?
Where did you go?
Did I make you mad?
Why aren’t you talking to me?
It says you are online?
You could have told me you didn’t want to talk to me any more…
What did I do wrong?
Please write me back…
I really like you
I’m a nice person
I’m not crazy
Why are you being rude
I should have known you were a bitch
All the girls on here are just playing me
I don’t understand why you are being this way.
6. They are probably crazy and you shouldn’t give them your number…
Why I Date Assholes…
Neediness drives me insane. I have enough neediness for the entire relationship and I know this, and it’s not to say that assholes can’t be needy, they can be, but it seems that all the single, “nice” guys that I find, miss me after one date, constantly want to know what I’m doing, where I am, why I’m not responding. The guy I had the date with sent this last night…
Dude really? It’s after one in the morning and even if I was on plenty of fish, what does it matter? Honestly I was asleep and I don’t know why the app showed me as online, but honestly, I haven’t made any commitment to him, so it really doesn’t matter.
Somewhere there is a happy medium, a guy who isn’t an asshole and isn’t needy, but I haven’t found him yet. I like to have space until I don’t want to. I love to text/talk but I hate feeling like I have to disclose every movement. Hey… I’m in the kitchen… Now I’m on the couch… Just watching tv… Pretty certain I can cut my losses on this one.